Courage in America
Restoring Character in America was the hardest of my books to publish. The first book, Politics with Principle was written from my 30 plus years of experience as a Washington Lobbyists. The second, Courage in America was a natural outcome of gaining the trust of the wounded warriors and just guiding them on their story of successful rehabilitation.
The idea of Restoring Character in America did not come easily to me. I read endless books, articles, and visited numerous web sites on several character related topics. Initially my plan was to write a book about our law enforcement heroes. I thought this would be a logical extension of the heroic qualities of the wounded warriors I knew. I had already reported on the wounded warriors traumatic loss, their vulnerability in rehabilitation, then their comeback, the final triumph of successful rehabilitation and transition to civilian life.
In my opinion, our country… Continue reading
Courage in America began as part of my service project as a member of The Knights of Malta, a Roman Catholic service organization. As part of my “work,” I visited wounded warriors at Walter Reed Hospital in Washington D.C. The results of those and subsequent visits to Walter Reed National Military Medical Center in Bethesda Maryland provided the opportunity for me to select wounded warriors who already have, or were in the process of successfully overcoming traumatic injuries. My mission was to understand the character traits that enable some of them to turn their adversities into successful recoveries, while others did not. Courage was clearly present in the successes.
Marine Corporal Todd Nicely**, was the first of the seven warriors I was to profile. Todd challenged me to write his story. I replied to Todd that given your serious injuries the story could be depressing. Todd replied…… Continue reading
Recently, I have been absent (with leave) from posting articles on this site because my neighbors and I hosted an event to support the recovery and rehabilitation of Adam Williams’s traumatic injuries. The good news is that Adam is making a miraculous recovery and the reception raised over $30,000 to help Adam and his family defers huge medical expenses.
As many of you may know, I have been working on character building for over ten years and have just launched my third character book, Restoring Character in America (RCIA.) At this stage of the project, having dedicated 10,000 hours to studying character education, we are generating growing interest in citizen participation in character building, sold over five thousand copies of my first two published books,… Politics with Principle: Ten Characters with Character and Courage in America, have almost 700 loyal followers who… Continue reading
Many remember well Doctor Martin Luther King Jr’s. “I Have A Dream” speech on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial on 23 August 1963. One wonder’s whether our nation today has come closer to his vision of judging our fellow citizens not by the color of one’s skin but by the content of one’s character.
In my first book, Politics with Principle: Ten Characters with Character I profiled ten politicians who not only were real characters but also possessed character. Understanding a series of personality traits they possessed, I could see what they had in common was they are all character-based leaders.
In my second book, Courage in America: Warriors with Character, Rich Tedesci, a psychologist at UNC Charlotte, helped me better understand the patience, perseverance, grit and other character traits the seven warriors I profiled in this book, either innately possessed our developed in response to traumatic injuries.… Continue reading
As readers of the Character Building Project might know, I am soon to publish a brief book on how character in America might be restored. Few dispute private character and civic virtue are in need of restoration but many doubt that goal is possible. This article is to share how I have gone about such a grand mission.
Several years ago I created The Character Building Project, a Web site designed to take a positive approach to building character and to identify examples of initiatives as well as civic “heroes” who are exemplifying and or uniquely promoting character development.
Since 2010 Wheatmark, Inc. published two of my books. The first Politics with Principle: Ten Characters with Character honored individual achievement in public service. The other Courage in America: Seven Warriors with Character focused on the courage and character of truly remarkable wounded warriors. These great young Americans demonstrate the… Continue reading
Last week I was privileged to address the Albemarle Chapter of the National Society of the Daughters of the American Revolution on the “The Character and Heroism of our Wounded Warriors and their Families.” The chapter of about seventy “Daughters” has raised, over the past 24 months, $150,000 to pay for three “track chairs” which they intend to award to three deserving wounded warriors.
Equally impressive was their sincere interest in our Veterans welfare as well as by the thoughtful questions raised after my brief talk. Two themes emerged during the Q&A, namely: what can be done to radically reform the Veterans Administration? The other was how do our wounded warriors develop their extraordinary character to persevere and prosper after traumatic injuries?
I will answer the VA question in another post but explained where the wounded warriors received their character education. It certainly was not in a high school… Continue reading
Many believe the topic of heroism is critically important to our politics, culture and needs to be properly taught in our educational system. That is why I am studying the path of ordinary Americans, heroically overcoming adversity.
Some time ago I reacted to the growth of “extreme egalitarianism” and the “self-esteem” movement, then and now, infiltrating our educational system. As a reaction, I was motivated to launch The Character Building project site. Our mission is to foster character building strengths in a rising generation of citizens by sharing the stories of ethical leaders who presently serve or have served others.
My vision to enhance character development is by writing, researching, teaching, speaking about leadership that illustrates the relationship between character development and the individual’s reasoning skills, moral will and self-discipline.
The reaction to my first book, Politics with Principle was positive inside the beltway but outside the beltway not so… Continue reading
We are having a discussion in The Character Building Project blog about heroism. Readers have offered various definitions. The consensus image of a hero seems to be one who engages in a demanding and preserving adversity or struggle, endures trials, is transformed, and ultimately achieves moral success.
It is a tricky exercise to define a hero and label worthy actions as heroic, particularly in a time when the culture is so cynical about virtue and fascinated instead by celebrity status. Sadly, this is an anti-hero age. Today, our schools consciously avoid teaching about virtue, so it is not surprising that the public exhibits disdain toward magnanimous political leaders and indifference toward military sacrifices.
My earlier books: Politics with Principle and Courage in America attempted to counter this disdain and indifference. These projects inadvertently led me to discovery of many unsung exemplary people leading truly heroic lives. I began… Continue reading
Readers of this site may recall my first book, Politics with Principle was about the good character of politicians I worked closely with over the years. Although the response to this book in and around Washington D.C. was positive, the typical response outside the beltway was, how did you find ten politicians with good character?
My next book, Courage in America: 7 Warriors with Character was a study of seven wounded warriors who displayed extraordinary resilience and character during their long war of rehabilitation. The response to Courage in America was more favorable than Politics with Principle and the typical query was, how can I help?
To follow the mission of the Character Building Project, our research of character in adversity continues. Some have suggested studying leaders in Corporate America who have displayed character in adversity. However, after reading Joel Klein’s Lessons of Hope: How to Fix… Continue reading
Often I wonder what motivates some wounded warriors to get off of their meds, get out of their hospital beds and endure the arduous path of a successful rehabilitation from their combat injuries? Is there a single ingredient, key to the successful rehabilitation of Wounded Warriors?
My initial impression was reflected in Courage in America: 7 Warriors with Character. Surely the courage they demonstrated in combat also carried over to their long war of rehabilitation. As I continued to meet and write in The Character Building Project about many other warriors who exhibit growth after traumatic injuries, I came to appreciate, in addition to courage, they possessed amazing will power, accountability and hope. Their heroic recoveries resulted, in part, by taking ownership and responsibility for their own future. But could this will power be exhausted and were there hidden challenges to the recovery process?
One warrior who has demonstrated positive… Continue reading
In working with wounded warriors over the last several years, I was curious why some warriors had positive outcomes from their combat injuries and others did not?
- Did those having success call upon their own will power as a means to recovery?
- Did those not experiencing successful rehabilitation, might they have used up their reserves of will power?
- Did some warriors possess better “character armour” than others?
In writing Courage in America, I chose to focus on those warriors having successful recoveries. Sadly, there were more warriors whose rehabilitation from injuries could not be viewed as successful, with a few ending with a life on drugs, alcohol or in suicide.
The warriors I profiled all had successful physical and mental recoveries from various kinds of combat injuries; losing their sight, to losing there limbs and having traumatic brain injuries. All exhibited an amazing will to recover and, rather than… Continue reading